At the beginning of a marriage, it is so easy to be intimate with your significant other. You both are only focused on loving each other and fulling each others needs. You look for any excuse to be intimate with them as they do with you. You both are adventurous and are constantly looking for new ways to add a little extra spice into you sex life. However, as you make a family together, being intimate with your partner gets but on the back burner. You both are now more focused on your kids and your jobs and even pets (if you have them). You start to forget what it was like to be intimate with your partner. Now you are wondering if you will ever be able to get that intimacy back in your marriage and if it is even possible to do so. Luckily, I can tell you how to keep the intimacy in your marriage.Something you must first understand is that it is the little things that matter and are a great way to start being more intimate in your marriage. Start by sending cute and flirty message to your partner. Nothing too long or too steamy. Just something that lets them know that you are thinking of them and that you wish you were with them. Take a cute photo of yourself and send it to them without warning. Nothing too revealing, of course, just something to tease them with and grab their attention. You want your partner to want you.
Secondly, you want to dress up a little for your partner. You don't have to get super dolled up and make a show of it. It just needs to be enough to let your partner that you are thinking of them and that you want to be intimate with them. It can be as simple as letting him see you put on a cute pair of undies with the matching bra or putting on something you know he loves to see you in. Maybe drop him off lunch while he's at work and make sure you look cute. Like I said, you want to make them want you. Lastly, make time. Yes, having a family and and a job is time consuming. You need to make time to be intimate with your partner. Setup a date with your partner at least once a month. If you can make more often then go for it. Get a babysitter to watch the kids and go on a date with just the two of you. Setup sleepovers for the kids so that you two can have the house to yourselves. Be creative.
Just because you have a family and a job does not mean that you have to say goodbye to the intimacy in your marriage. Make time for be intimate with your partner. Dress up a little for them. Send them little flirty text messages and pictures throughout the day. Keeping the intimacy in a marriage does not have to be hard.